Sara--Thank you for tagging me. You write so well about the many contributing factors to the dating turbulence in our society (AKA: what-the-hell-is-dating-meant-to-look-like-in-our-21st-century??)Maybe getting off the app for a spell is a good thing. I heard you can make a list of all of the qualities you want in a partner and send it "out to the Universe."