Hungry for Certainty
We all know the adage “The only constant in life is change.” But there’s a difference between intellectually understanding a concept and living it. The pandemic caused most if not all of us to wax accustomed to uncertainty. From our health to our jobs, our daily lives became a figurative walk on eggshells.
There’s a paradox in nature: the more we try to control things, the more out of control they tend to become. Whether it’s a diet or a habit, the more we challenge something, the worse it seems to become.
So what can we do when we are so hungry for certainty? When there’s so little in our control? When the obstacles seem to only get higher and more challenging when we try to climb them?
We can take a deep breath. We can go inward. We can take comfort in noting that the sun rises each morning and sets each evening. We can grow grateful for even the smallest of things (if you can read this, your eyes are working — a miracle in itself).
We can surrender to wherever we are and know that good or bad, this too shall pass.
We can be kind to ourselves and pay attention more — catching ourselves whenever our inner thoughts sound like the evil villain of a movie;-)
We can cultivate a shift in our perception that stimulates acceptance and appreciation over judgement.
So that maybe the next time we see the sunrise, our spiritual bellies might just feel a little less hungry.